Golden rules for football parents
The golden rules for parents of footballers summarise key principles that help create the best conditions for a child’s sporting development. These rules are based on many years of experience and help parents find the right balance between offering support and respecting the autonomy of young athletes.
Basic principles of the parental role
The first and most important rule is to recognise your role – you are a parent first, not a coach. Your main responsibility is to provide emotional support, create a safe environment, and encourage enjoyment of sport. Keep perspective and remember that football should primarily bring your child joy and contribute to their personal growth.
Another fundamental principle is to respect your child’s individuality and their unique pace of development. Every child is different and follows their own path in sport. Avoid comparing them to others and focus on their personal progress and development.
Rules of communication and behaviour
It is essential to maintain a positive and supportive tone in communication. Avoid criticism during or immediately after matches. Instead, focus on encouragement and recognising effort. Listen to your child and respect their feelings and opinions about sport.
Your behaviour during matches and training sessions should set an example for others. Stay calm in emotionally charged situations and show respect to referees, coaches, and opponents. Your reactions and behaviour directly influence how your child perceives the sporting environment.
Supporting sporting development
Supporting your child’s athletic development includes providing practical support such as ensuring timely transport to training and matches, supplying appropriate equipment, and promoting proper nutrition. At the same time, it is important to respect the training plan and not interfere with the coach’s work by arranging additional training without their knowledge.
An important part of supporting your child is helping them set realistic goals and expectations. Encourage persistence and hard work, but do not place excessive pressure on performance. Help your child find a healthy balance between sport and other areas of life, such as school and leisure time.
Respect for authority and the team
Respect the structure of the club and the authority of its leaders. Coaches are responsible for the sporting development of the players, and referees ensure the smooth conduct of the game. Any comments or suggestions should be shared at the appropriate time and in the right way, always showing respect for the roles and responsibilities of those involved.
Encourage team spirit and teach your child to see success as a collective effort. Avoid negative comments about teammates or coaches. Help create a positive atmosphere within the team and promote fair play.
Creating a positive environment
Actively contribute to creating a positive sporting environment. This includes supporting club activities, attending parent meetings, and helping to organise team events where possible.
Be part of the parent community and contribute to a supportive atmosphere.
Remember that your attitudes and approach to sport significantly influence your child's long-term relationship with physical activity. Create an environment where sport is associated with fun, personal growth, and a healthy lifestyle. Promote values such as fair play, respect, and teamwork.